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Love and Dorothy Day

February 2012
 
This month has me thinking of love in all of its many forms in our lives, spurring me to discuss a woman connected to Tottenville who I never had the privilege of knowing personally, but have come to know rather well through people who knew her, and from her writings.
 
Dorothy Day was born on November 8, 1897.  Until her death on November 29, 1980, she impacted so many lives with love, and after her death continues to do so.  Her legacy continues.
 
 
 
 
On June 10, 1997, as a new freelance reporter for the Staten Island Register newspaper, I wrote an article, “Spanish Camp residents shaken by sale of land.” 
 
The next week I wrote, “Dorothy Day had deep affection for Spanish Camp.” 
 
I had no way of knowing at the time what this assignment from then News Editor Bill Franz was to do to my life.  I wrote about Spanish Camp for the weekly newspaper for over 3 years, following the difficult story where real estate investors won out over middle class families. Along the way, Dorothy kept touching my life.
 
I went to the sixth annual Dorothy Day pilgrimage held by Pax Christi, Staten Island on Sunday, June 29, 1997.  We visited several significant sites.
 
We saw the bungalow, and its outhouse at Spanish Camp, where she was able to come back to the beach of Staten Island in the seventies, calling it her oasis. This picture shows Dorothy at the bungalow in Spanish Camp. 
 
We made a stop at Our Lady Help of Christians Church, my own parish in Tottenville, seeing the baptismal record where Dorothy had her daughter Tamar baptized, and where Dorothy was accepted into the Catholic Church. She is currently being considered for sainthood, and as she did in her life, brings extra blessings to Tottenville, and to all the places with which she was connected.
 
We prayed at her grave at Resurrection Cemetery.
 
On November 25, 1997 I wrote a commentary for the Register, “The legacy of Dorothy Day,”sharing my attendance at the Catholic Center at New York University in Manhattan for a symposium to commemorate the 100th Anniversary of Dorothy’s birth.
 
“Somehow, I keep being pulled to Dorothy Day.  I originally attended to see if there was a news story related to Spanish Camp.  Instead, I found something more compelling, more personal, that just didn’t fit into news format.  Although we never met, Dorothy has touched my soul.”
 
I wrote of Patricia Rusk, Dorothy’s long time secretary who still lived at Spanish Camp at the time, giving me her personal copy with notes on Dorothy’s writings, By Little and By Little. One note under the title shows Pat’s comment, “The Passion of Dorothy Day.”
 
 I shared Robert Ellsberg’s introduction to the book:
 
“She wrote to give reason for a marriage of convictions that was a scandal and stumbling block to many: radical politics and traditional, conservative theology.  Yet it was not what Dorothy Day wrote that was extraordinary, nor even what she believed, but the fact that there was absolutely no distinction between what she believed,what she wrote and the manner in which she lived.”
 
Let me end with Dorothy’s own words on love, written On Pilgrimage in 1948, from By Little and By Little that is as relevant today as when she wrote them.
 
“Whenever I groan within myself and think how hard it is to keep writing about love in these times of tension and strife which may, at any moment, become for us all a time of terror, I think to myself: What else is the world interested in?  What else do we all want, each one of us, except to love and be loved, in our families, in our work, in all our relationships?  God is Love.  Love casts out fear.”
 
 
 
 
Read more about and by Dorothy Day
 
Biographical Essay on Dorothy Day By Angie Mangino
 
“Dorothy In Love,” an article in America Magazine, by ROBERTELLSBERG | NOVEMBER 15, 2010
 
 

New direction

 
January 2012
 
As part of my goal planning for this year, I reflected on the direction my writing has taken over the last year, so I wanted to share with you the direction I plan to take with our Tottenville blog.
 
Since its inception, the blog’s format was to come out weekly.  True, I confess to missing some weeks along the way, but mostly I achieved my goal. For the new year, however, I believe it will be more beneficial for me, and for my readers, if we proceed on a monthly basis going forward.
 
Much has happened this past year in my life.  Added to my personal writing and book reviewing workload, I have introduced critique service for unpublished manuscripts, and have even taken on a business client for content editing. 
 
All of this is exciting, and I’m enjoying the expansion of my freelance writing career.  What I don’t want this expansion to do, however, is to make the Tottenville blog, and the writing of the book Tottenville Speaks, to get lost in the process, or become uninspired, by my trying to keep the blog going weekly. 
 
Quality is important, and if I allow myself to become overwhelmed, I suspect that quality will suffer, something that is not acceptable to me.
 
One goal of mine going forward is to make the blog more interactive, more in line with the title of my upcoming book, Tottenville Speaks.
 
So speak to me, Tottenville. Add your comments, as well as contacting me if you would like to be a guest blogger sharing Tottenville’s history. Let me know what you think of my decision of going monthly.  Share topics you’d like to see explored.  If it’s related to Tottenville, this is the place for you.
 
 
 
 

Winter Holiday Greetings

It doesn't matter if you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza, Ramadan, Diwali, Dongzhi, or Winter Solstice; we share so much that is the same.  This is the season of awareness, inner renewal, blessing, and affirmation of self-worth for all of us. 
 
We may all seem different by our winter celebrations, but under closer inspection, we are all saying the same thing.  If only the people of the world could all learn to recognize this fact, peace on earth would actually exist.  That’s the real message of the season that I hope you’ll be able to discover in your celebrations this year.
 
While wishing each other a happy holiday, I’d like to share with you my own personal take on the form of greetings for this seasons that mystifies me in becoming a problem for many, rather than a shared wish for happiness & blessings.
 
Each year a childhood friend of mine who celebrates Hanukkah wishes me a “Merry Christmas,” while I wish him and his wife a “Happy Hanukkah.”  They give me a Christmas wrapped gift, while I wrap my Hanukkah gift to them in Hanukkah paper, with gold wrapped chocolate coins “gelt” attached on top of the package.  We share our love of each other at the holidays by honoring each other’s different beliefs.
 
So now that it’s Christmas, if someone wishes you a “MerryChristmas,”  from their belief and joy at this time, and that is not your belief, know that the greeting is coming from a place of love, wishing you blessings, not an attack on your beliefs.  Find that equivalent place in your belief, and receive the greeting in that spirit of blessing.
 
That said, I close this week’s blog from my heart, wishing you every blessing in this season of mutually similar beliefs searching for that elusive “peace on earth” we all desire and need.
 
Merry Christmas!
 
Angie
 
 
 

Conference House Colonial Christmas

 
The Colonial Christmas at the Conference House on Sunday, Dec 11 was a wonderful pause in the hecticness of the season, taking one back to a much simpler time. 
 
It was my pleasure to go with Jaclyn Lurker, a fellow writer from Tottenville, who has been so supportive of my work writing about Tottenville from the very beginning when I first applied for a COAHSI grant to do the research and to conduct interactive workshops on the history of Tottenville.  It is she who set up & maintained my first webiste, teaching me along the way that technology is my friend.  Her support keeps me going during the rough times.
 
Recently having her submission “Insult and Insolence” selected to be published in Bad Austen:The Worst Stories Jane Never Wrote, Jackie is in the process of writing a seven minute play on Pride for The Seven Deadly Sins, a presentation of the Staten Island Playwrights Collective, to be performed at the Unitarian Church in the end of  February.
 
 
 
As a special Christmas treat for both of us, we both got calls from the Conference House after the event to pick up the baskets we won. Appropriately she won the Sangria basket, while I won a wine basket of one of my favorites, Gato Negro.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Enjoy a peak at the event with the pictures I took & share in the Christmas spirit I found there.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Christmas at the Conference House

 
It’s that time of year where most of us go into supercharged mode in anticipation of the holidays.  Yet during all this joyful, and unfortunately sometimes stressful, preparation, I know I have to remind myself repeatedly that all that really needs to be done will get done…and if it doesn’t get done….well….then maybe it’s because it really didn’t NEED to be done!
 
Annually the Conference House here in Tottenville offers a break from the stress with a short repast back in time with the Grand Illumination and Colonial Christmas.
 
Did you attend the Grand Illumination last Friday night, December 2?  Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to go this year to see the Conference House lit up with candles in each window, or to indulge in the hot cider and cookies while singing Christmas carols.  Having attended last year, I missed that sense of community celebrating the holidays from a simpler time in Tottenville’s history.
 
However, I do plan to attend the Colonial Christmas at the Conference House on Sunday, December 11 at some point during their hours of 10:00 a.m.–4:00 p.m.  Hopefully all goes well for me to attend, and if so, I would love for readers of this blog to come up to me so that I can share some in- person time with you who share so much online time with me each week.
 
 
 
 
 
Information:
 
 
 

Thanksgiving Thoughts

 
HappyThanksgiving!
 
 
 
On this day of turkey & football, I’d like totake time to reflect on that for which I am grateful this year.
 
 
 
I am thankful for:
 
·       … my faith, a gift from God, thatsustains me as my source of strength.
 
·       … my children, whose love and support are a blessing to me every day of my life.
 
·       … my grandson, who keeps me honest and centered on the really important things in life, by his questions,observations, and unconditional love for me.
 
·       … my friends and family, standing by me in both the good and the bad times.
 
·       … my writing career, that lets me use my talent, hopefully to make a difference for those who read my words.
 
 
 
What’s on your list?
 
 
 
Reading over this list, I noticed something that I hope helps you compose your own list.  What is most important are my God and other people. Obviously, I’m grateful for food on the table, a roof over my head, and many extras that I enjoy, but that’s just things, and not what is most important, nor what first came to mind when writing this.
 
 
 
So to all of you, I send my love on this holiday,with the wish for many people in your lives to love, and to be loved by. 
 
May we all remember to keep the spirit of gratefulness, not just on Thanksgiving, but every day of the year.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Nov 19 Memorial for 9/11 dedication

 
 
On Saturday, November 19, at 11 am at the Tottenville Memorial Site on Amboy Road & Main Street, The Tottenville HistoricalSociety will dedicate the 9/11 memorial clock and monument to honor theTottenville residents who lost their lives at the World Trade Center on September 11, 2001.
 
FF Paul M. Beyer
 
Louis A. Caporicci
 
FF Scott M. Davidson
 
FF Francis Esposito
 
FF Gary P. Geidel
 
FF Jeffrey J. Giordano
 
Michele B. Lanza
 
FF Carl E. Molinaro
 
Mario Nardone Jr.
 
FF Paul J. Pansini.
 
 
 
Ten years ago, we vowed that we would never forget.  This dedication the year of the tenth anniversary is a fitting sign of the fulfillment of this vow.  Those we lost are in our hearts forever.
 
I encourage all who can to attend the dedication if possible, but more importantly, each time you pass the corner of Amboy Road & MainStreet, take a quiet moment to remember.
 
….and then why not do one good deed in their memory to make life better for others in the Tottenville community?  To me, that will be the greatest tribute to them, which this monument stands to encourage. Then we can witness with our own lives that love indeed, does live on.
 
 
 
For those who may have missed my September 11 post for the tenth anniversary, you can access it through this link.
 
 
 
 
More Information:
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Veterans Day

 
This Friday, November 11, is Veterans Day. 
 
 
 
·        Is it just a long weekend with Friday off from work or school?
 
·        Is it just a jump start for the holidays with Veterans Day sales at the Mall and online?
 
·        Is it just a holiday that you vaguely remember from history class that holds no meaning for you? 
 
 
 
What does the day really mean?
 
 
 
No, it does not mean a day only dedicated to our veterans who have died.  That’s Memorial Day, which we celebrated in May.
 
 
 
Veterans Day was originally known as Armistice Day,with the 1919 proclamation of President Wilson to commemorate the eleventh hour, of the eleventh day, of the eleventh month, when the fighting after WorldWar I ended with an armistice, to honor the veterans of World War I for achieving peace.  This was seventh months before the official end of the war that was to end all wars with the signing of the Treaty of Versailles.
 
 
 
Armistice Day became a legal holiday in 1938 as a day to be dedicated to the cause of world peace. 
 
 
 
In 1954, November 11th became a day to honor American veterans of all wars, replacing the word armistice with veterans.  It was to be a celebration of all our veterans, living and deceased, to honor their willingness to serve and sacrifice for the common good.  Especially, it was to be a day to give thanks to living veterans for their service.
 
 
 
So for Veterans Day this year, may I suggest 3 ideas for celebrating the day from its history?
 
1.      Take the time to contact every veteran you can and say, “Thank you,” whether in person, on the phone, or over the Internet.
 
2.      Learn more about the history and of the honor roll of Tottenville veterans from the links below.
 
3.      Let’s put emphasis onto the attainment of world peace, so that maybe at some point the last war we wage WILL be the war that ended all war.  Before you say that’s a utopian dream, consider reading the review of Captain Paul K. Chappell’s book The End of War
 
Captain Chappell is a veteran whoserved in the U.S. Army for seven years, loving and serving our country.  He points out new ways to look at peace and ending war that are not hopelessly ideal and naïve, but rather supported by common sense practical actions that anyone who loves America as he does can do if they so choose.
 
 
MoreInformation
 
TottenvilleHistorical Society:
 
Veterans– Honor Roll
 
 
 
 
 
U.S.  Dept. of Veterans Affairs:
 
VeteransDay History 
 
 
VeteransServices
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Weir House

 
 
Clifford Fisch contacted me via my website, asking for my help regarding the Weir House, after reading my July Tottenville blogpost about Disoway’s Mills.
 
 
 
As you may remember, Disosway’s was the only grist mill to serve Tottenville for over 200 years. The apparent last owner, W. Weir, added a saw mill in 1870, with the subsequent name becoming Weir’s Grist & Saw Mills.
 
 
 
 
Weir’s house is at 6475 Amboy Road, and Fisch is looking for someone interested in its historical preservation with the house up for sale.
 
 
 
The Preservation League of Staten Island is assisting in reaching out to those who appreciate the historical significance of this house, and it’s an honor to do my part by devoting this blog post to the cause.
 
 
 
Readers, spread the word, and please do share any additional information you may know about this historical house or W. Weir.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Here’s some information I found online –
 
·       According to N.Y.C. Property records, this 24X20 foot home, built in 1915, sits on a 93.51 X 101.51 foot irregular shaped lot.
 
 
 
·       The Preservation League of Staten Island re: Weir House up for sale
 
 
·       Video showing inside Weir House  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3d9Ka6Kpnk
 

“Tottenville in Prose” …#6 … conclusion

 
“Tottenville inProse”  …#6  … conclusion
 
Here’s the final postof” Tottenville in Prose.”  Let me knowin the comments both your thoughts about it and any information you may want toshare with other readers.
 
“There was Hubbard R. Yetman we can’t forget
 
His real estate business is going on yet
 
He would sell real estate and insurance and make out yourbill
 
Now it is being run by his daughter Laura and his son Bill
 
Where Dr. Stauff’s dental office stands now
 
Taylor Elliott once grazed a cow
 
The largest ship yard in the town was run by a man name A.C.Brown
 
If there was a fire all the people would know
 
Because the S.S. White’s whistle would blow
 
One thing in the town which some people thought nice
 
When they wenht to the rink to skate on the ice
 
Another thing thought so grand
 
When they listened to old Tottenville’s band
 
And Saturday night they would dance or watch basketball
 
At the old Knights of Pythias dance hall
 
Some people had a new place to go
 
Jim Laird opened a picture show
 
Amboy Road had a hard name to make know
 
I will tell yu about this some other time.”
 
-SCOTTY
 
Further information:
 
Hubbard R. Yetman